Posted on February 20, 2019 by Now or Never - Life Changing Stories
The accident changed her life. She nearly died: Meet Bhummy, former researcher, shooting range manager and sales representative with one big passion: Coffee!
I had a bad accident. I nearly died. My brain was bleeding. This moment has changed my life. I thought: You never know how long you are going to live. That’s why I decided to do what I love. To live with no regrets!
I did a lot of research on the brain. How it functions. And how our thoughts, our way of thinking influences our daily life. Our thoughts are so powerful. When I realized that I started to get all the crap out of my mind. For the first time in my life I asked myself: What makes me happy? What do I want to do with my life?
Coffee and coffeeshops! Writing and blogging about coffee topics. Meeting inspiring people, people with a similar lifestyle and mindset. And I like languages and writing. Some day I will write a book!
I wasn’t really unhappy as a researcher. But at some stage it wasn’t a challenge anymore. I wanted more. Wanted to try new things, learn more. So I quit and did exactly that: I tried out many things. I changed my life.
Yes! I know it sounds ridiculous! But I was interested in all these things! So after quitting my research job I became a sales executive in a silk factory. And then I worked as a shooting range marketing executive, a make-up artist, a Ted-X volunteer. And again as a researcher. I wanted to try everything I was interested in!
The last job, another research job, simply came into my life. It was a great job and on top of that I had the chance to work with Asia’s best researchers. I’d say that I did a good job. But I quit again. Why? Because I finally realized that this just wasn’t me. It didn’t make me happy. I don’t want to work to make other people successful anymore. I want to do my own thing. Life is short – so I want to be my own boss!
1) Doing so many jobs showed me: I can do anything I want. You don’t need a degree, but passion. I can teach myself anything, when I am interested in it. So I think trying out new stuff is great. But at some point you have to focus on one thing and just make a plan.
2) My business degree at university was just theory. It was interesting. But for all my jobs in marketing and sales it didn’t help me at all. Everything I needed for my daily work I learned on the job.
3) After my accident I started to look at my dreams and fears. I asked myself: What makes me happy? Asking yourself this question ist the most important thing in life. It changes everything! And I realized: If I can change something, I need to do it. If I have no control about something, I have to accept it without wasting any energy. If want my life to change, I have to change myself.
4) I decide who I spend time with. And what I do. For example being on my phone all day totally distracts me. That’s why I started checking my messages only at certain times. Every day, every second exists only once. Live the moment!
Coffeeshops. My favorite coffee? I don’t have one. When I am feeling fat, I drink an Americano. When I am feeling great: Latte. Coffeeshops inspire me. The vibes, the atmosphere. Every day I choose a different coffeeshop – depending on what I want to do on that day. Sometimes that’s a café with loud music which motivates me. If I want peace and quiet I go to the Omnia Café in Chiang Mai. Another reason why I like working from coffeeshops is that I always meet people with a similar lifestyle: Artists, digital nomads, writers.
“The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up”
Bhummy: This book changed my life. I tidied up. My room and my thoughts. Now I am more organized, more focused and I know what I want.
“The Happiness Planner”
Bhummy: A life-changing book. A must-read read to find out what you want to do with your life. 14 questions that changed my life – and my mother’s life. For the first time my mum asked herself what she really wanted to do with her life.
Bhummy, the best of luck for your coffee journey – keep on rocking!
Bhummy’s coffee lover facebook group
Category: Stories Tags: accident, career, change, Dream, dream life, happiness, job, Life change